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The Interlude: Roadtripping With A Raindrop Moment #6

July 30, 2013 by Gayle Harper 5 Comments

I’ve got clean windows, a full tank of gas and a mug of fresh, dark coffee and I am one happy woman. It might seem that by the 88th day of a road trip, a little road weariness might set in, but it is, in fact, the opposite. The miles that remain are as enticing as the last in a box of fine, dark chocolates – their centers a mystery until the moment of tasting.

This stretch of the Mississippi Great River Road between Baton Rouge, Louisiana, and New Orleans is a mix of gracious antebellum plantations sheltered by moss-draped live oaks and massive conglomerations of petrochemical tanks and pipes secured behind tall chain link fences. Pleasure boats and fishing boats have all but disappeared from the River, replaced by stocky, no-nonsense tugboats and immense, ocean-going cargo ships that seem as out of proportion in this environment as Alice in Wonderland. They have come from all over the world to the Port of Baton Rouge and while some of the flags and names are recognizable, others are mysteriously foreign to me.

Cargo Ship on the Mississippi River

Cargo Ship on the Mississippi River

After three sips of coffee and ten minutes of relaxing into the road, my attention is grabbed by a small, hand-lettered sign on a nondescript gray building that says, “Welcome Seafarers.” I can’t say why that is of interest and for a few seconds I try to resist what feels like an interruption, but it is a familiar nudge from Serendipity, so I turn around and go back.

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When I enter beneath another sign that says, “Port Ministry Center,” I am accosted by a squirrel-sized dog who seems to think she’d like to eat my leg. Her ruckus brings her humans, who offer a friendlier greeting and introduce themselves as Steve Corbin, the Port Chaplain and his wife, Ann.

The Corbins are accustomed to drop-ins and the dog has decided I am alright, so we tour the building as they explain their work with the sailors who come on the big ships. The seafarers can catch a ride to the store, use the computers or receive whatever practical or spiritual support they might need. It’s rewarding, they tell me, because the men are often surprised and touched to receive such kindnesses so far from home. We chat a few minutes and it seems time to move on. Meeting them has been interesting and has shown me how the international presence of the sailors has flavored this small community. As I begin to say goodbye, Steve says, “Actually, I was just about to go onboard a ship that is in harbor today from Myanmar. Would you like to come with me?” Aha! Now I see! 

I had, of course, been curious, but I had not even considered trying to get aboard a ship. I knew that the security would be tight and wending my way through it, if possible at all, would be time-consuming. In the company of Steve, however, who not only has the security clearance but is also well-known at the harbor, it’s a matter of an I.D. and a signature while having a friendly chat with the officer.

Seen from a distance, most of the ships had seemed gritty, some even rusty, but when we step aboard The Sophia, all is shiny white and blue. A smiling sailor in white greets us and leads us downstairs to a room where a handful of men have gathered.

Sailor Aboard The Sophia

Sailor Aboard The Sophia

Steve’s purpose today is to deliver gifts of warm hats, knitted by volunteers, and as that word spreads, the room begins to fill. The men are quiet and polite – they laugh softly as they try on hats and gesture their thanks.

Trying on hats

Trying on hats

We have very little language in common, but they are warm, curious and pleased, I think, to have the diversion of visitors. When our escort translates the story of the raindrop journey to the men, they laugh and nod vigorously and clap their hands together in delight. When I pass out postcards, the atmosphere is as jovial as Christmas. They gather themselves for a group photo before I think to ask and those with cameras in their quarters are sent scurrying to get them.

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Steve explains that our visit must be brief, but that we have a few minutes if they would like to show me around. “Yes! Yes, please!” is the enthusiastic response, and we set off immediately. In the engine room, the massive equipment is quiet now and the engineer stands straight and proud in his immaculate realm of mechanical power. He stands at attention, as if he has been expecting us and all is prepared for our visit, as our guide explains what we are seeing.

Engineer on The Sophia

Engineer on The Sophia

Then, we climb several flights of stairs to the bridge, the command center of the ship. Our guide respectfully asks permission and then we all step into a broad, bright, semi-circular room edged with inward-slanting windows.

The Bridge

The Bridge

A few people are at work stations in front of monitor screens, controls, gauges, levers, switches and microphones. One of them is the navigator, who lights up with excitement when he learns that I am following the Mississippi River. He wants to show me his maps and when he sees that I am genuinely interested, he becomes a mixture of childlike delight and proud formality. He points to his home, Myanmar (formerly Burma), and traces with his finger the route they have traveled. He lays each map out carefully, smoothing it gently, and shows me on a series of maps in progressively finer detail where they entered the Mississippi River from the Gulf of Mexico and the miles they have traveled since then. Language is cumbersome, but communication is fluent. I understand how devoted he is to his important job and how competently he handles it.

Navigator on The Sophia

Navigator on The Sophia

Next, I am invited to meet the Captain, who welcomes me into his office with the same courtly elegance that I have seen in everyone. His English is very good and there is an easy rapport between us within minutes. As we talk, his expressive face reflects every feeling and his openness touches me. He speaks about his job – what he loves about it and how he sometimes feels the weight of its responsibility. Then, with a tone and a look that tugs at my heart, he talks about the long months away from home. “It was easier,” he says, “before there was a child. Now, it is harder.” I feel his integrity and I see his dedication to both his crew and his family – and, now that I have met him, I see those qualities reflected in everything that I have seen and heard on board.

Captain of The Sophia

Captain of The Sophia

Steve and I have lunch in a small café and he talks about his calling to this ministry and about the loneliness he sees in the sailors he serves. He knows he is making a difference.

Back at my car, I dump the cold coffee on the grass. As I resume where I left off 3 ½ hours earlier, I whisper a thank you for being shown once again that this world is filled with goodness.

Filed Under: LA - Baton Rouge, Roadtripping With A Raindrop #6: The Interlude, travel Tagged With: America, Baton Rouge, Louisiana, Shipping on the Mississippi River, Travel

Flavors of Friendship

November 30, 2010 by Gayle Harper Leave a Comment

As in many families, it is a Thanksgiving tradition in ours to hold hands while expressing gratitude for our blessings. Relationships with family and friends are always high on my list. Some of the friends that bless my daily life have been a part of it for 2 or 3 decades now. That longevity brings a level of comfort and richness that I treasure – we know each other well and love and accept each other “warts and all”.  

As the road dust begins to settle around me and there is a bit more time for reflection, friendship is something I have thought about. There are many flavors of friendship, all unique and equally delicious. Some have the familiarity that grows over time and in other cases a deep and powerful connection is established in a very short time. My life on the road for 90 days was filled with friendships like the latter.   Often there was the sense that while I may not know all the details of a person’s life story nor they mine, we were connected on a level that made that immaterial. It felt as if we had always known each other and the quality of the relationship had nothing to do with the amount of time we had spent together. I fully expect that many of my new “river friends” will be in my life for decades to come, but even if they are not, the quality of the shared relationship is not diminished.  

South of Baton Rouge, in the small river town of Paulina, Louisiana, Michael Hopping had invited me to stay in his beautifully restored raised Creole plantation home on the River Road. As soon as I arrived, we climbed into Michael’s 4-wheeler to ride through the woods and visit a few of his favorite spots on the river. 

He took me to a broad, clean, sandy beach at a bend in the river, a rarity in many miles of wooded or marshy shoreline.  Rivulets of water flowing down the hill had drawn graceful, arching designs in the sand that expanded and came together again like the river itself. I knew I was with a kindred spirit when I asked him excitedly to stop so I could photograph the patterns in the sand, and he immediately joined me in appreciation of their beauty.

In this part of the Mississippi, between Baton Rouge and New Orleans, you begin to see huge cargo ships from home ports all over the world, moving up from the Gulf of Mexico.  Michael stopped the 4-wheeler at a small dock so I could catch my first glimpse of one of the behemoths. 

They are so massive; it boggles my mind that they can navigate so far up the river.  I was curious about the tugboats we saw there and wanted to understand how they fit into the picture I was seeing, so we went to the small “Office” trailer, and the guys there were happy to explain.  

“Harbor tugs” are made to cut through the water quickly and are surrounded with bumpers of tires, to protect them from banging against the big ships as they shuttle personnel and supplies back and forth.  Michael laughed at what he called my “boldness” in asking about the possibility of going out on one, but he laughed again in delight when the answer was, “Come back in the morning and I’ll take you out.”

So, at 8:00 the next morning, Donald “Duck” Mahl and I headed out in a slightly smaller version of the tugs I had seen the day before. It wasn’t clear to me at first whether or not we were on some mission, but it was a fine morning and I was thrilled to be out on the river.  We traveled under the bridge and passed close to some of the gigantic ships, letting me really experience their size. 

When I saw a shot I liked and tentatively asked if he could possibly angle the boat to one side, and the answer came back, “I can go anywhere you like.  Just tell me what you’d like,” I understood he had done this simply as a kindness to me. Amazing! 

He drives the boat from a little tower, looking backward over his shoulder, which somehow makes it easier when getting up close to a ship. He left the controls once, scrambled up the steps to a platform above his tower and pantomimed taking a picture from there, then pointed to me.  I was considerably more tentative in my scrambling, and kept a pretty good grip on the railing as the boat bobbed around in the waves, but it was a great view! 

There were ships from Poland and China and several flags I couldn’t recognize, carrying oil and grain and huge metal parts. As I watched an enormous onboard crane hefting bundles from a barge into the ship’s belly, I thought about how this river has changed since we first met it in Minnesota. On day 2 of this journey, I was on a Mississippi River barely wider than the canoe in which I was gliding and on day 86, this same Mississippi River is vast and deep enough to carry these indescribably huge cargo ships. What an amazing transformation! 

I called my friend Michael after the boat ride to tell him about it. He was truly delighted – in the way that good friends appreciate each other’s adventures. “Duck” didn’t know it, but he had a boat loaded with people who appreciate his kindness and his willingness to play with our little raindrop!

Next stop – New Orleans, where I’ll meet with another dear friend I’ve known more than 20 years, but with whom I’ve shared very little “face time”!   See you soon!      Gayle

Filed Under: LA - Baton Rouge, LA - Paulina Tagged With: Cargo Ships, Mississippi River Harbor Tugs

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